Failure to reign in anger and impulsive, reactionary behavior usually results in penalties. Try to express your feelings before they start to poison you and your relationship. Bottled up feelings often lead to angry outbursts when triggered. Take turns speaking. Work at listening to what your partner is saying, rather than rehearsing your response. Would you help me clean the house for our guests?
Know what you need to feel loved by your spouse. Seek solutions that are mutually beneficial.
Awareness of your negative habits and behaviors is the springboard to change. Once you become aware, the logical next step is to gain an understanding of their negative impact on your relationship.
This awareness and understanding serve as a foundation to motivate you to eliminate and replace bad habits and behaviors with positive thoughts and actions. If your spouse is willing, read the 20 rules together aloud. Finally, in the spirit of better communication, commit to working together to be mindful of the rules. Knowing how to communicate without fighting will help to reduce negativity and tension and lead to a happier marriage. You and your spouse are unique individuals.
No doubt, there are times when the two of you disagree. Conflict is a necessary and essential component of even the most harmonious relationships.
Sometimes those needs and wants get out of synch. To get on the same page, the sooner you talk out your differences, the less time turmoil will invade your relationship. Abiding by these 20 rules will make a big difference. Next, spending time identifying what you need and want in your marriage. By Jerry on November 14, in Marriage.
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